Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau, popularly known as Kaffy, a 42-year-old dancer made it known in a post via her Instagram page where she confirmed separation with now ex husband, Joseph Ameh, a music director and drummer, with whom they had two kids together.
She wrote;
“I have always wanted to see my ex be the best version of himself and even breaking up the marriage was also to see that we both grew into what we really are supposed to be. Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place that God wants us to be and mine really did not work out that way.
I took a chance breaking it off – Kaffy speaks on failed marriage (Video)
“Rather than looking at somebody as a problem, you could be the problem of that person. Being an enabler of someone not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you are not supposed to be in that space.
“So, there was a lot to learn and there is still a lot more to learn. I want to express that and motivate you to understand that life is not all about reaction to the world; it is not about reacting to what want you to say or what the world wants to hear; what the world wants you to be or what the world wants you to wear; what the world wants you to look like or get married,” she said.
